Well, talk about random. My so-called evolving as the submissive/Spanke I am now in the here & now has led me to be ‘Vanilla. No longer identifying as a submissive. No. Just me. I do quite like ‘vanilla. Preferably clotted cream & soft…Thinking of myself as ‘Me & submissive me is not working ‘for me. It feels wrong. Probably because I am no longer doing anything submissive/Spanke related. So all I have is past memories. I want to create new memories, but that is a whole other era…
Why bother writing here then…Hm?
Soo! I enter FetLife & ‘Yay! Look there is a message. Be still my beating heart…
Nope! Copy-pasta ‘AGAIN!’ How many times…{Sighs}
Oh! Thanks! Or else indeed…Twat!
Guys like this are the reason I prefer vanilla these days. I think I met this guy in the past when I was going through my naive, gullible phase. You know. Before all the idiots taught me that the scene was too much hassle to be worth my time & energy…
Now. Do I respond? If this is the bloke I met many years ago. He was difficult to get rid of without resorting to being rude…
My response…Because I’m past dealing with the impersonal, condescending copy & pasted messages…
The_spankeeverse 54F subYou lost me at ‘Young lady’…You have sent me this same message a few times over the years. I am not into the ‘Young lady’ Naughty girl. Being dealt with…I am definitely not into involving innocent young women going about their job…It is creepy! A simple ‘Hi, maybe leading to us chatting would have been a lot better…I am not one of the cliche’ ‘Young lady, naughty girls. I find that quite patronising…
Also. I don’t care about your age, your height, your weight if you are strong enough to hold down some bottom you feel is being cheekier than other naughty young ladies…
Young lady? Really?
I doubt it, mate. I have a few words in my profile…Maybe you noticed ‘Spanking’
You dropped more than a line…A simple ‘Hi’ would do. So we can chat…
So? Do I care? No, I don’t…
So? Do I care? No, I don’t…
FFS!!! More importantly, I can’t stand the ‘Naughty Girl’ Young Lady brigade…If you bothered to start with the word ‘Hi’ & chat. You’d soon learn all about me as a submissive/spankee & how much ‘Young lady & dealing with naughty girls rubs me up the wrong way. I find it patronising, condescending. Lazy! Not all women are into being naughty girls who need dealing with…F**K OFF!!! You patronising! Condescending! Old man!…
See! This is me…Oh! So I am a naughty girl for swearing at the experienced Domly fellow? Hm?
WTF!!! Talk about patronising! You condescending old fart!
Good for you, but reading this impersonal, copy-pasted fantasy of yours makes me feel quite…Ugh! It’s creepy. You are a stranger talking to me. Not even using original words. Nope. Many women have received these same impersonal, condescending, assuming words before. Including myself. You are one of the many cliche Domly Doms out there, masquerading as the fantasy you assume all women want…No! Try talking to me as an equal, as a woman who is into being spanked. Not your fantasy…
OMFG! Mate! Have you ever reread the condescending dribble you typed out a long time ago. 2 years ago to be precise…Strong enough to hold me down & beat me. Because in your mind, I am nothing more than a fetish. A bottom. A young lady. A naughty girl. I can see how you view women & I’m not about to allow that near me ever again…
I don’t care that you go to the gym, or run, or if you sit on the couch & eat junk food whilst watching Netflix…To add more cliche to my blog…
OH! MY! F*CKING! GAWD!!! You assume I am put off by that…You are happy to chat? Why not start with chatting? If I’d like to get to know you? No! I don’t want to know you after this copy-pasted dribble you dropped on me…I could care less about your age. I go by personality & if we get on. Though all the ‘Young lady’ & naughty girl & dealing…Nah!
Sighs! No! Creepy! The fact you want some innocent young woman, who is doing her job, to witness that weirdness with the old geezer & older woman…Grow up!
NO!
NOOOO!!!!
Good for you…Start with that whilst chatting as two adults into spanking…You know. Equals…
I don’t care. It is of no consequence to me…Try chatting not showing off. I don’t like show-offs…This is showing off & I’m supposed to be impressed?
So you want me to travel to you in South East London? If we had chatted. Got on. Decided to meet face to face…but. You decided to go the impersonal, condescending Domly Dom way…AGAIN! The same message AGAIN! Maybe a few tweaks. Probably from getting told off by other women, he dropped his copy-pasted wossee on…