Soo! What are men looking for in a Domme? I know what I assume & of course, all people are different, varied, and unique. Whereas I appreciate the individual. As a person in their own right. Is that a Domme thing to do? Or should I see a submissive as little more than a plaything to be moulded into my ideal? Hm?
Does he even want to be appreciated for the worm he is? Wriggling about on his belly in the dirt. I am his Domme. Not his Aunty. I don’t do Aunty. I don’t do nasty either. I am just trying it on for size…Oops! It does feel right. Good fit…
Oh! Noo! What am I evolving into? Should I be flexible? Are Domme’s flexible? Or hard, dominating women. Doing what they want. What he wants doesn’t come into it. WHO CARES! Actually, I do care, but isn’t that the point? Does he want to be abused? Does he want to be used, abused, blue balls…Hm?
Should I even be asking & just go in there with the attitude? This is how it is going to be…Should arguing back earn him a good, thorough, over-the-knee ‘HARD!’ slippering? Or my disdain…Hm? The thought that ‘You deserve a slippering because you enjoy it’ Is that even Domme. Or?
I need to ask these questions. Should force come into it? I know. Why so many ?????? marks & not red welts, marking some undeserving, unworthy male. Why should he have any pleasure? The pleasure is all mine to take. Am I wrong? Am I right? Of course, I am right. I am the ‘Goddess!’
I am just trying on ‘Goddess!’ It reminded me of Lucifer & his Mum. The goddess of all creation. Which made me smile…Do Domme’s smile. Or just have a resting b*tch face…There is always the manic witch cackle…
Humiliation! Is it really humiliating to tie some bloke’s balls back tight behind him & make him crawl around on the floor ‘Naked’ in front of everyone {BDSM Event} ? Is it humiliating? Because after all that is what he is there for. If he didn’t want that & told me ‘No!’ Would he be ‘Domming from the bottom?’ {Obviously, everything should be discussed beforehand} Do I want to do that? Hm! Um!……Yeesss! I’d love it. I’d enjoy it…
I’d find it easier to do those things & get creative. Then role-play. I now know. That I am more into spanking as a spankee & into BDSM as a Domme. Will I be doing it in real-time any time soon? Maybe not for a while. The Domme rush of getting creative is here, but not ready to be revealed out there. Just yet. Writing yes…
Could I wax a bloke’s hairy genitals? I know. Wait. What. Where did that come from {Concensual of course} Yes. I could do that & relish in the sheer agony & humiliation of it all…Wow! Maybe some think that sounds tame, lame even. Then there are those with their eyes watering…
I most definitely won’t be doing all the scolding. Lecturing! All the ‘Domme! Talk!’ Unless it feels right to me. I am quiet and introverted. A INFJ & proud. If some guy wants to be told ‘Don’t look at me’ & all the cliche Domme banter. Then find a talking Domme…
A naughty boy who needs telling off? More likely to be in writing. I am serious. I don’t do what he wants. I am a Domme. Not a so-called fetish dispenser. Do you want to worship my feet? Do it quietly. Try not to be creepy about it. I find it creepy and irritating. Mind you. How do you not non-creepy when it comes to worshipping feet…Hm?
Maybe my sub side likes the confidence in a man I play with. Though I suspect sub-men are quite confident in what they want. The whole time letting her be Dom over him…I will end on that note…