Spanking
Tied & bound in the woods…
Three daily blogs each day. One negative vent. Two All things I love about spanking. Three ‘Healing!’ Cognitive behaviour therapy…I am about to do daily blog number two…Step by step. Using images & memes… If I was to decide that I want to find a new Dom/spanker. Who would I be looking for? I am not, but I would like to create a virtual Dom/spanker, to write my stories… I love this picture…It speaks to my submissive/ spankee soul… Bloomers! Alfresco! Tied up, bound. Vulnerable {I love the look of bliss on her face} I am visualising what happens after the photo is taken. A switch cut. Maybe already a birch made. The intense burning sting builds up. As more rapid strokes lash across her bare bottom. Creating bright red tiny welts, the birch ...
How to find a bottom to spank…
I am going to do some CBT on myself & hopefully put my opinion out there on ‘How to find a submissive’ I am going to enjoy writing this blog post. I am keeping it as ‘positive’ as humanly possible, regarding the sh*tty behaviour of many clueless men & women…Ops! Did I go into b*tch mode? I do apologise… This is where I can only speak from my point of view…If you are a self-confessed masochist. Do you want kindness, respect, and all things nice? Or do you want to be used, abused, humiliated, disrespected, degraded? I am going with the black & white, narrow point of view…Of ‘Yes!’ Or ‘No!’ but there is so much more to it than that… This is where I try my hardest to see it from all points of view… ...
Cognitive behaviour therapy the spankee way…
The external circumstances…Hm? As this is all about my spankee side. The external would be certain people with ill intentions…I want to ignore, rise above, as I always did, right up until a few got the claws in…Nuff said! My blog today is going to be all about CBT. Aka – Cognitive behaviour therapy. Something I started doing years ago. Over a decade ago…I healed my own mind. I cured my own depression. Yes, it is possible. I never liked to play when I felt emotional. Because for me spanking was all about pleasure. Fun…Sexual {Without the sex} Sensual, erotic, pleasure from pain. I have written these words so often…but I’m not sure many Doms get that…Um! I should mention. My need to heal came from meeting & interacting with a mentally...
The Plimsol or The Slipper
I’d be interested to know which of the above – plimsoll or carpet slipper – most people thought was more effective or painful to receive. I was talking about this to my wife the other night and I was saying that at school I had the plimsoll and at home the slipper and thought the plimsoll hurt more. She on the other hand, received a teachers carpet slipper at school and at home her mum used a plimsoll and she thought the slipper was more painful. ——————————- Personally I think the plimsoll that I got at school from the gym teacher hurt more than dad with his slipper at home. However i think the real reason is that school teachers whacked harder as they were used to doing it – and knew how to do it well. They also knew how to get the victim to bend over correctly to tan their bottom. i sno ...
CP and the end of the Age of Innocence
There is a popular caveat repeated often on reality television here that says don’t try this at home. It certainly applies here to the half-dozen posting in a mainstream publication. Some of this information may seem irrevelant and others who have no interest in the American Way may find it yawnable but I hope some will eill enjoy and/or learn something about our history. Hollywood probably assures that many of this will not be unfamiliar to our estimable Forum. Google has become a souce of a mine lode of links especially when it comes to small city papers in the days of yore as I recently mentioned. Is this happening in regional papers in the UK. In 1939 an article that would appear in the below links wouldn’t raise an eyebrow. The end of the innocence began here with kinky mo...
Then and Now
After visiting with some friends/relatives back in my day, I was able to get some of them to talk about school punishments now versus ones back in our time here in the South. These discussions as well as some of the things I have read online including this site has been enlightening. One of the things I have noticed about here in the south is how much and how little some things have changed in regard to home and school corporal punishments. Both varieties are definitely down in frequency from my days of youth, but I found some things very interesting. First was who can deliver swats vs who cannot. Back in my day both male and female administrators could deliver swats to either gender and no witness required. Then the witness thing began in the 1960’s and it seemed girls, es...
Too Old For Spanking?
I was not spanked beyond age 10. However, when I was 11 and 12 I remember being given the occasional threat of a spanking. So, the possibility was still there, but I never needed to actually get it after 10 years old. Once I became a teenager, I can hardly remember being disciplined at all, much less spanked. I might get a verbal lecture from time to time, but that was it. When I was a little kid, I think spanking worked for me. During those years, I did tend to learn lessons best through the seat of my pants. I think that getting spanked past the age of 12 would have seemed awkward to me and very insulting. My school had corporal punishment in the form of paddling up through 8th grade, which would be age 14. So, I could have been a potential...
Male students – Canings from a Female Teacher
When I was 15 years old, I had a boyfriend who was one year older than me. They had a pretty young female teacher Latin, she was at her late twenties. One day he received a six of the best caning of her that he never forgot. He said that this was the most painful and humiliating caning he received in his entire school career. The fact that he was whipped by a young female was particularly embarrassing. And obviously, she did her job really well. Have you had similar experiences?Was it different to get caned by a female teacher?Did males or females cane harder? —————————– All my canings were from male teachers. I did get the slipper from a female teacher at juniors and there wasn’t any real difference between how hard she hit and how hard the male teachers did. —————————— I never got a cani...
Please don’t worry, I’ve got you…
Today I am going to say it with the use of memes & spanking images. I am aiming to button my lips…Let’s see how long that lasts… I am doing a memory, and mind reset. Keeping all the good, all the positive. ALL! The amazing, wonderful spanking experiences. Of which there are many. As many as there are bad? No. Way better than bad…I am one lucky submissive spankee lady…So much bliss! I was always being myself. Because myself is actually quite fabulous…{Smiles sweetly} I feel some spanking images coming on… Interesting position. I am visualising myself in this position. Naked of course. Flogged! Maybe legs are more akimbo…Gently spanking my………’ Mmm!’ Oh! My!… I love what this image brings out in me&...
The Slipper Remembered
I attended a boys’ grammar school in the North of England in the 1960s.Corporal punishment was widely used.Most of the teachers used the slipper, while the headmaster and deputy head used the cane.The majority of teachers were male and although we had more women teachers later, at the time in question when I was 14, we had only two female teachers.One was Mrs Johnson, the new science teacher, who was a big, blonde woman in her late thirties.She took over from our previous science teacher who had been very strict, and she made it clear from her very first class that she intended to be the same.It was after about a week that I got into serious trouble.Mrs. Johnson had told us to get on quietly with work and to make no noise, but I risked a whisper to a friend sitting nearby.Mrs Johnson notic...
Having to wait for the Slipper
What is the longest anyone has had to wait between the announcement of punishment and its ‘execution’? I read a long time ago of someone who was told on a Friday that he was going to get the slipper for some misdemeanor, but that it was going to wait until Monday morning. So the poor lad must have had his whole weekend ruined because of having to wait – the Sunday evening must have been horrific.Did anybody experience anything like that, or even or long wait outside the head’s study till he came back from a leisurely lunch, as happened to me! I lost count of the butterflies in my stomach by the time he arrived.At prep school in the mid ’70s, I waited from Thursday until Monday morning break to be caned. I was “on the report” which meant one had to carry a blank timetable around to all your...
Miss Howse & her Slipper
It was 1959. I was eight and in my last term at primary school before moving on to the lower school of a large boys’ grammar. My friend Valerie and I were playing a silly game in class, paying no attention to the lesson. The game involved each of us in turn holding up a hand while the other tried to touch the hand with their tongue, while the first child tried to avoid it. Amazingly, the teacher, Mrs Roberts, didn’t notice. The lesson ended, it was morning break and I went out into the playground. But after a few minutes Valerie came looking for me. “I’m afraid we’ve got to go and see the headmistress. Janice [I forget the wretched girl’s real name] has told on us.” When we got to the headmistress’s study, both the head – a frumpy spinster named Miss Howse – and Mrs Roberts were waiting fo...