Warm Glow
Cognitive behaviour therapy the spankee way…
The external circumstances…Hm? As this is all about my spankee side. The external would be certain people with ill intentions…I want to ignore, rise above, as I always did, right up until a few got the claws in…Nuff said! My blog today is going to be all about CBT. Aka – Cognitive behaviour therapy. Something I started doing years ago. Over a decade ago…I healed my own mind. I cured my own depression. Yes, it is possible. I never liked to play when I felt emotional. Because for me spanking was all about pleasure. Fun…Sexual {Without the sex} Sensual, erotic, pleasure from pain. I have written these words so often…but I’m not sure many Doms get that…Um! I should mention. My need to heal came from meeting & interacting with a mentally...
You have been gifted with a unique perspective…sub/spankee me…
I was trying to decide where I want to go with my writing on this site… Because I am no longer the sub I used to be. Though the same loves & desires are still there. Deep inside. With all the many amazing, wonderful, spanking experiences I was lucky to receive… I am still impressed by all the spankings I received. There are so many. Not so! impressed by certain people & their shitty unnecessary, unprovoked, behaviour. but there you go. It is what it is… Well. You know where I am going with this…& a question popped into my mind…Do the doms like spanking women who feel pleasure from being spanked? Or is it all about punishment & discipline? I find the psychology of spanking quite interesting…I am aware of the ‘Just bend over’ br...
Please don’t worry, I’ve got you…
Today I am going to say it with the use of memes & spanking images. I am aiming to button my lips…Let’s see how long that lasts… I am doing a memory, and mind reset. Keeping all the good, all the positive. ALL! The amazing, wonderful spanking experiences. Of which there are many. As many as there are bad? No. Way better than bad…I am one lucky submissive spankee lady…So much bliss! I was always being myself. Because myself is actually quite fabulous…{Smiles sweetly} I feel some spanking images coming on… Interesting position. I am visualising myself in this position. Naked of course. Flogged! Maybe legs are more akimbo…Gently spanking my………’ Mmm!’ Oh! My!… I love what this image brings out in me&...
Xmas time Domme making new years resolutions…
Yay! Its CHRISTMAS! I love Christmas. More for giving my grandchildren presents. Drinking snowballs {Advocat the booze} & of course Xmas dinner. Other than that it is just like any other day. I refuse to get caught up in all the drama & hype. I refuse to get caught up in any drama & hype in any walk of my life. Then there is the whole new year’s resolution thing. Apparently, that has gone out of fashion. Oh! No! You can’t say ‘New years resolutions’ Humph! My new year’s resolutions for the year 2023. Is…To write. I enjoy writing. I am always writing, but I want to write stories. I want to write here…Also this year. I am going to fill my tiny courtyard garden to burst. With fruit, veg, flowers, and herbs. My daughter bought me a seedbox ...
Getting Domme Creative.
Soo! What are men looking for in a Domme? I know what I assume & of course, all people are different, varied, and unique. Whereas I appreciate the individual. As a person in their own right. Is that a Domme thing to do? Or should I see a submissive as little more than a plaything to be moulded into my ideal? Hm? Does he even want to be appreciated for the worm he is? Wriggling about on his belly in the dirt. I am his Domme. Not his Aunty. I don’t do Aunty. I don’t do nasty either. I am just trying it on for size…Oops! It does feel right. Good fit… Oh! Noo! What am I evolving into? Should I be flexible? Are Domme’s flexible? Or hard, dominating women. Doing what they want. What he wants doesn’t come into it. WHO CARES! Actually, I do care, but isnR...
Domme Evolving
I am loving the new art work. I am not even into Ballet, but this image speaks to me. I think it must be the beauty, elegance & grace. Plus the flexibility & skill. My focus for the new year is to become the best version of new me. Leaving the past me behind in the archives of my subconscious mind… I say best version of new me. In reality I am allowing the Domme side of me to emerge from the shadows. It is Dommes time to rise & shine…WTF! Am I on about! Rolls my subbie eyes… I never said it was going to happen overnight. One snap decision. No…It is going to be a journey of kinky discovery. I do like corsets. I think I threw my corset away when I moved & also cleared out all my spanking implements… I just now remembered that. Throwing away all t...
From sub side – Domme side
I asked Weboy, for a subject to write about. He gave me ‘from sub side to Domme side’ It certainly gave me something to think about. Writing from my point of view. My sub side. Is my love of being spanked & my Domme side is more to do with my personality. Spanking to me is all about pleasure from pain. As a Domme? As I said. That comes more from my personality. I am not wired to be bossed around, controlled, or trained by my Dom. The same goes for not wanting to be a bossy b**ch to some man. Or a woman comes to think of it…Hm? I can hear the words ‘You are a superb sub’…’You are very submissive indeed’…’You are very submissive in play’ The person who said that was my then-Dom. He knew me the best. I am interested in how ...
Warm_Glow In The Beginning.
The name warm glow is a name I used in the past. It is a reminder of all the good experiences, which I would like to take with me on this new journey of discovery. I called it a new journey of discovery…but is it really a journey? & what am I discovering? I have decided to chillax in the background & write. I don’t want to write my spankee memoirs. No. Though my past experiences will bleed into my writing… Keeping it short & sweet, for now… Fetish photo